Electronics, machines in general, and I do not always see eye to eye. This was never more apparent than in my article about the onset of my war on electronics in the fight for control over my kids – I Am Woman (Ode to Chris the Caveman).
However, there was also the showdown with the nasty smoke alarm in Woman vs. Machine. And don’t even get me started on my nemesis – the vacuum – as portrayed in The Day I Killed the Vaccum.
The thing is, I was recently lulled into a false sense of security when I found a way to make my big time enemy – electronics – into my unwitting ally. Or at least, I thought I had found a way. Today, on ParentSociety.com, I share my story of underestimation and slippery deception.
Are You a Parent Fighting the War on Electronics?
Here is something you need to know about the enemy!
Go Here! Quick!!
Today, it would be nice if I was doing something like this:
Or maybe even this:
But, in all likelihood, my day will probably look more like this:
In September, I began the task of looking for a job outside my home. It turned out to be a much more arduous process (and at times embarrassing – Bag Lady Goes a Job Hunting) than I had anticipated. But at long last, in December I was offered a full time position (someone finally took pity on me) and officially changed my status from WAHM (work at home Mom) to WOHM (work outside the home Mom).
I expected a transition time, what I got was chaos.
Head over to ParentSociety.com where today, I share the whole messy story and what I plan to do about it!
Go Here: The Chaos of a Newly Working Mom
If you are not immediately sure of the answer to the question “Are you the Mom or the Housekeeper?” then you are in desperate need of a personal day and my most recent article on ParentSociety.com may be just the thing: 6 Ways to Pamper Yourself During Mommy Time.
You know the moment when you are knee-deep in laundry and it occurs to you that the job of mom (or in some cases, dad) is more like the job of live-in housekeeper?
I don’t know about you, but before I became a mom, my visions of motherhood went more like little children tripping along behind me, through the grassy meadow, singing in perfect harmony. OK, that might have been “Sound of Music,” but you get my drift.
Well, whenever I begin to overly obsess on the housekeeper aspects of being a mom, which usually comes in the midst of some particularly gross job like scrubbing toothpaste globs out of the carpet, I know it is time for a personal day…
We all need some personal time every now and then. Go Here to get 6 suggestions on how you might spend it.
Go now…what are you waiting for?…the laundry will wait…I promise!
6 Ways to Pamper Yourself During Mommy Time.
So let’s just say you did something completely crazy like, oh I don’t know, answer the wanted ad for parenting? Wanted: A Parent. Faint Hearted Need Not Apply. Hey, it’s ok, we all do it because there is no accounting for crazy.
But now, you may really need to check out my post on ParentSociety.com, 10 Awesome Parenting Tips You’ll Actually Use.
It is the logical progression.
1. Do something crazy like become a parent
2. Ask for help from those who have run the gauntlet.
3. Apply advice liberally in a trial and error fashion.
4. Hope, plead, pray, cross fingers for the best.
Thank you to all the contributors who helped me put together the awesome list! Apparently, I not only need help with parenting, I need help compiling a list of tips to help with parenting. It is a good thing I have such wonderful (and vastly smart) friends and family!
10 Awesome Parenting Tips You’ll Actually Use
For those of you not sick of hearing about my trip to the UK yet (I hope there are at least 2 of you left), my article 6 Budget Activities to Do With Kids in the UK is running on ParentSociety.com today. It starts out like this…
Ok, here it is people: the truth about travel with kids. You can plan and plan and plan until you are blue in the face. You can research activities you hope your kids will find intriguing until you are bleary-eyed. You can root out every possible fun activity there is until your head is spinning. But no matter how much work you do to entertain your kids on a vacation, the sad reality is that in the end it doesn’t matter. No matter what you do, those slippery little suckers will end up liking some random activity better.
Now, come on, doesn’t that make you the least bit curious? Wee bit? Go Here!
6 Budget Activities to Do with Kids in the UK
Other travel musings:
Sweet Spots: UK
Leaving My Heart (& “the Cheeseman”) in Hamburg
Don’t Worry, I Speak the Language
Round ’em Up Son: All is Good in Wales
For more Sweet Spot Travels: Go Here!
Planning an airplane trip anytime soon with your kids? Well, if you are ever going to entertain the idea or have had the potentially not-so-pleasureable experience already – better skedaddle on over to ParentSociety.com where today I am sharing
10 Travel Items to Never Leave Home Without
My husband and I have always loved to travel. Therefore, since the time our kids were babies we have dragged them all over the USA and abroad. As with all things, doing any activity with kids involved is, to put it mildly, different. Throughout the years, I have developed a mental checklist of items I never leave home without.
Most All of these suggestions have been learned the hard way, through the rough road of experience (as in sometimes, there was not even a road, just a trail with big ruts).
Some or all of these items may just save you from a few more grey hairs! GREY HAIRS I SAID! What are you waiting for??! Go Here! Quick!
Some of my early travel experiences When All Else Fails, Cry.
For more Sweet Spot Travels: Go Here!
Have you ever heard of The Freezer Club? Well, if your first thought runs to some strange club that meets in a deep freeze, or group of people who text while sitting in the refridgerator, you better hurry on over to ParentSociety.com.
My most recent article Why You Should Join the Freezer Club explains in detail about a little discovery I made last week while…
... away from home at a baseball field in over 100 degree heat, getting bitten by bugs, coated in dust and desiring to rip all my clothes off in order to stop them from sticking to me (although I worried such a display might throw off my kids batting).
Trust me – it is a good discovery and quite possibly the most innovative idea I have come across in a long time with regards to feeding a family in a way that is all at once healthy, economical and fun! Go here!
Why You Should Join the Freezer Club
My other forays into cooking: Where’s the Beef?
Yes, I seem to be running a theme of Country Living lately (Top 10 Clues You Are Not Cut Out For Country Life). No rhyme or reason, just where my brain is roaming around on these hot summer days leading up to Fourth of July!
Today, my most recent article about raising country kids is running over at ParentSociety.com.
I grew up in the suburbs, lived in the city, and then moved to the country when my kids came along. I did not expect there to be any difference when it came to raising my kids in the country as opposed to the city/suburbs. Kids are kids, how different could it be? But I am here to tell you I was naive as a turkey on Thanksgiving…
Yes, I was naive – but my kids have educated me well. I mean really, who needs shoes or a license to drive anyway? Have I said to much? Alright, already, just go read this quick little piece and find out the rest! Whether you are planning on ever being a Country Parent or not, you just might be glad you did! Go Here!
4 Things to Know About Raising Country Kids
Yes, folks, it is that time again! The time of the week when I drop a few words over at my home away from home – aka: ParentSociety.com. Today I am talking about why all parents – yes, myself included – should Get a Life!
It starts out something like this:
Becoming a first-time mom late in life means two things: First, my grandkids will have a super cool walker to climb on and second, I had an activity-filled life before my kids ever came along. For me, this included many aspects of theater and performing. However, I always knew when I became parent, I wanted to give my kids full and undivided attention. So when the kiddos came along, I put those extracurricular activities on hold.
But, then things changed and no, I did not “run off to join a geriatric production of “CATS”…or worse. As usual, you will just have to go HERE to get the rest of the story and of course the 4 “pearls of wisdom” as to why as parents, we should all Get a Life!
4 Reasons All Parents Should Get a Life!
Today’s Best Moment is a different one – for me here at Sweet Spot anyway. Today’s moment is about being thankful. Thankful I only had to read about the information in my recent article on ParentSociety.com and not live it first hand. Thankful my kids are healthy, happy and strong. Thankful I can talk to my kids about the difficult choices and dangers they will face out in the world.
I know I usually write what I like to think are informative, yet humor-infused articles. However, I wanted to deviate from my normal light-hearted approach to write something regarding a new designer drug called bath salts. Why? Because up until a few days ago, I had never even heard of this horrific new synthetic drug and as a parent, that scared the puffin’ stuff out of me…
I reasoned that maybe I was not the only parent ignorant until recently of this scary new creation. If you want to know more go here to read.
“Am I The Only Parent Who Never Heard of Bath Salts?“
Do you have kids in sports. Do you know parents who have kids in sports? Do you plan to someday have kids in sports? Or, do you just like to laugh at parents who have kids in sports?
Well then, you should read my latest article on ParentSociety.com, called “6 Kinds of Sports Parents. Which are you?”
and take my Sports Parent Quiz.
Now, some of you may be familiar with the post I wrote at the start of my kids’ baseball season “Bulldogs Don’t Wear Lipstick” where I vowed to be a
good better Sport Mom. But recently, I have had the desire to really examine the sports parent phenomenon – what makes a good sports parent, and what makes a nightmare one.
The article starts with the study that initially intrigued me:
I read a study recently where hundreds of college athletes, over 30 years time, were polled with the question: “What is your worst memory from playing youth and high school sports?”
The overwhelming answer was: “The ride home from the games with my parents.”
Those same college athletes were also asked what gave them joy and made them feel good during or after a game. The most common answer was their parents saying…
Ha – cliffhanger! You will have to go HERE to find out the answer and hopefully, take my quiz.
Are you scared? Don’t worry. It will be fun. I have always found it is good to laugh at yourself…this way, the people laughing at you have company.
Oh, and be sure to come back here and tell me how you scored! Pretty please with sugar, chocolate and peanut butter on top?
The fun continues on ParentSociety.com where my latest article “Top 5 Mysteries of Parenting” went live today. It starts out like this:
Mysteries are a part of life. True mysterious occurrences are, all at once, puzzling, unexplainable, and strange. As a young person I obsessed over anomalies such as: Did it really say “Paul is dead” when a Beatles song was played backwards? And would the bad guys on Scooby Doo really have gotten away with it “if it wasn’t for those meddling kids?” As I matured, I moved on to more perplexing mysteries such as: How did they get those massive statues on Easter Island up and standing in a row? Is Jim Morrison really alive and well roaming the streets of Paris, incognito, looking like Grizzly Adams? And, Donald Trump’s hair (need I say more)?
But then, I discovered the mysteries of parenting…
Go here find out the Top 5 Mysteries of Parenting that baffle me most. Hint – it has something to do with Teeth, Knives and the Uterine Homing Device…
My latest article on ParentSociety.com is out. Want a little sample?
I know the day is coming, soon. I know as sure as Lindsay Lohan will end up in court again, the day is coming when my fear of full disclosure will be realized. The day when I get asked personal questions by my curious teenage boys that I, on the one hand do not want to lie about, but at the same time do not want to fully disclose either. And, in the interest of proper parenting – I mean, you have start some time, right – I must know how to handle the moment and I need help!
Let me explain. Getting married and becoming a first time Mom in my 30’s meant two things…
All choices have consequences. Go here to find out why my choices may mean looking as old (and just as hairy) as Dumbledore.
My first article The Real Reason I Wear Sunscreen (Hint: It’s not for my health) is up and running on ParentSociety.com! Curious? It starts like this:
A few years ago (if more than ½ dozen can still be considered a few), I turned 40.
You know those major transitions in life that breeze right by – go down like milk and honey? Right, well, this was not one of those moments. For me, turning 40 was much more like swallowing a jagged little pill…and Alanis Morissette…and her entire band…all at the same time.
As I recall, which being over 40 and a Mom pretty much gives me carte blanche to never remember anything ever again, my actual birthday was pretty good….
Go here to read the rest. Really, you don’t want to miss this one. That is, if you want to know what Peeping Toms and sunscreen have in common.
The Real Reason I Wear Sunscreen.